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Love yourself a little extra!

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I f there's one word that is precious to me and close to my heart in this entire universe, that is Self-love. I always believe that it is self love that shapes us into what we are and who we are becoming. It is our echo that binds us to our core. We are nothing if there's is no love for ourselves. We live like an empty shell with no purpose, with no goal, with no direction if there's no love for ourselves inside us. It gives us true identity, it is a safe space where we are true to ourselves, true to our beliefs and thoughts. Self-love is like a life long romance with one self, where we love ourselves no matter who loves us or not, where we hold ourselves no matter who stays or who leaves us, where we choose ourselves no matter who chooses us, every hour, every minute and every second of our lives. Some people think self-love is selfish, and an obsession, but it isn't. It is more like a self awareness, a consciousness and hope. The whole point of Self-love is something ...

It is okay to choose yourself!

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W e often come across situations in life where we go through the heartbreaks and lose love and that phase literally feels like an end. It might happen due to the decisions we make or the people we choose or maybe it's in the destiny, but we all experience that emotionally low phase in our lives at certain point of time. And the pain that comes with that loss is indescribable and sometimes we don't even know how to cope up with that pain anymore and it feels like our heart might explode and we sob silently and hide that pain behind the deep chambers of our hearts, smiles and silence. When such unexpected things happen we forget all the good that has happened in our lives until now and we remember only the bad things that happened to us. We forget how strong we were and how brave we were so far. We forget how we handled everything independently before we met that person and how we have achieved things alone before meeting that person and how strong we were even before we know tha...

Choice!

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Being happy, is a choice. Being sad, is a choice. Being kind, is a choice. Being mean, is a choice. Being lazy, is a choice. Being angry, is a choice. Being independent, is a choice. Doing a job, is a choice. Falling in love, is a choice. Falling out of love, is a choice. Getting married, is a choice. Getting a divorce, is a choice. Wanting kids, is a choice. Not wanting kids, is a choice. Being single, is a choice. Being silent, is a choice. Crying is a choice. Not hurting, is a choice. Not reacting, is a choice. Fighting back is a choice. Never giving up is a choice. Living in the moment, is a choice. Happily ever after is a choice. Often, the choice will be in our hands, the decision will be in our hands, but we end up going with the wrong decisions and wrong choices and suffer unnecessarily. Before taking any step in your life, no matter how small it is, just think as many times as you want until you are very sure that you are taking the right choice and the right decision. If you ...

Overcoming Unwanted thoughts!

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"You don't have to control your thoughts. You just have to stop letting them control you." -Dan Millman As I started writing this blog I've been pondering about what I'm going to speak through this blog today and how my words are going to Inspire you all. If you observe me closely I'm thinking before I'm doing something. It's my thoughts that turn into words and what you are reading right now is purely the collection of my thoughts.  I'm writing this piece that is the reason I'm thinking about it, but if I'm doing something else my thoughts would differ.  Usually, It happens with all of us. We think about what is necessary for the moment and we avoid what is unnecessary.  But often due to stress, an unexpected change in the events and because of sudden melancholy, we get stuck at one thought or loss or an incident that happened to us. We relive those moments over and over again. And that loop forces us to think about the same thing irrespec...

The art of Self-Love!

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" To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance."— Oscar Wilde The definition of self-love is different to different people. To some, it is just a word. To some, it is being self-absorbed, but to me it is everything.  If it wasn't for self-love I wouldn't be writing this blog and you guys wouldn't be reading it now.  People often ask me why I love myself so much. I just smile whenever I hear  that question. Some think it is weird. Some think it is not necessary. But I always believe that  self-love is what keeps me going no matter what comes my way.  Every time I thought of giving up on my life, It was self-love that brought me back. It is what gave me hope to live and it continues to give me hope. Now when I say self-love you might ask me what is self love?  Self-love is that abode where you feel safe,  where you can meet the real you,  where you can be yourself and hold yourself tight and never let go of your hand in every situation. We...

Overcoming loneliness and self-doubts!

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“The most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved.” —Mother Teresa People often feel lonely for various reasons. Sometimes when they are heartbroken, when they are abandoned, when they lose a relationship, when they don't have anyone to share their happiness with, when they don't have anyone to share their grief with, when they are afraid of something, and when they don't feel safe anymore, that's when they  develop  the feeling of being unloved, unwanted and unhappy and go distant from their family and friends. They don't interact with anyone and start being alone everywhere and carry that feeling with them every day, hiding it within the deep chambers of their heart. At times that feeling can be self-destructive and they might take extreme steps.  We usually see some kids being distant and playing alone. They don't like it if someone touches their toys or books or when someone  talks to them. Their parents think that their kid loves his...

Aftermath of heartbreak!

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"I think the biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is the disease of people feeling unloved." - Princess Diana.  If one asks me what is love?  I would say love is hope, love is kind, love is patient, it is magical, It is mysterious and It brings people and their stories together. Some people fall in love at first sight, while some wait their whole lives to meet their soulmates. The moment when someone swipes right into your heart, that's the moment your world will change forever.  I always believe that love is everywhere around us and it is what keeps us going. It's in every corner of the world, in every end of the dream. Without love, the earth wouldn't be this beautiful. If there wasn't love probably there would be wars, there would be so much hatred in this world and maybe people would be killing each other. When love is so rare and precious in this world everyone wants to keep a piece of it with them, but love is so wild that it will ...