Choice!

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Being happy, is a choice.

Being sad, is a choice.

Being kind, is a choice.

Being mean, is a choice.

Being lazy, is a choice.

Being angry, is a choice.

Being independent, is a choice.

Doing a job, is a choice.

Falling in love, is a choice.

Falling out of love, is a choice.

Getting married, is a choice.

Getting a divorce, is a choice.

Wanting kids, is a choice.

Not wanting kids, is a choice.

Being single, is a choice.

Being silent, is a choice.

Crying is a choice.

Not hurting, is a choice.

Not reacting, is a choice.

Fighting back is a choice.

Never giving up is a choice.

Living in the moment, is a choice.

Happily ever after is a choice.




Often, the choice will be in our hands, the decision will be in our hands, but we end up going with the wrong decisions and wrong choices and suffer unnecessarily. Before taking any step in your life, no matter how small it is, just think as many times as you want until you are very sure that you are taking the right choice and the right decision. If you want to be with someone that is your choice, if you love that person that is your choice, If you have started a relationship, that's your choice. But if you end up fighting with that person everyday then what are you choosing? Are you choosing a happy relationship or are you choosing a strained relationship? If you choose not to fight, then you are choosing happiness. But if you choose fighting, then you are welcoming anger, sadness and trauma into your lives. You can apply the same logic whenever you do something. I always believe that we humans  end up getting into trouble, not because of fate, not because of evil eyes, not because of the wrong circle, but because  of our everyday choices. If you can think before you react, before you take action, ask yourself once "WHAT AM I CHOOSING?

©Author Queeny Yalangi


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